Find Your Fantasy

Knowing what you want isn’t as easy as it sounds. Many people don’t even know their options — or have vague ideas about what appeals to them but don’t have the language to express it. It can be easy to feel overwhelmed with choices, especially if you’re new to the kink or sex-positive scene.

In this ninety-minute video, I cover:

  • Tools to identify your desires
  • Explorations of common fantasies
  • Steps to incorporate these ideas into your life

To help you succeed and integrate what you learn in class, you also receive:

  • A "Menu of Things to Consider," my version of a yes-no-maybe list
  • An exercise to help you discover how you want to feel
  • Instructions on how to take advantage of these materials
  • A discount on one-on-one coaching to help you get additional support


Your Instructor


Stella Harris
Stella Harris

Stella Harris believes communication is key to satisfaction in relationships.

Professionally trained and certified as an intimacy educator, coach, and mediator, Stella brings empathy, expertise, and a fresh perspective to help clients find their sticking points and break through the roadblocks to their goals.

A regular speaker at colleges, universities, conferences and venues across the US and Canada, Stella’s wide-ranging expertise has led to being featured on the evening news discussing the importance of sex education in schools, appearing as an expert witness in court, and even speaking as an authority on banana slug mating habits.

Stella’s sense of humor and ability to make difficult conversations approachable make her a frequent guest on podcasts like Sex Out Loud, Sex With Strangers, Shameless Sex, and The Pleasure Mechanics.

Stella is the author of two books, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships, and The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes.

Learn more at www.stellaharris.net


Course Curriculum


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Frequently Asked Questions


When does the course start and finish?
The course starts now and never ends! It is a completely self-paced online course - you decide when you start and when you finish.
How long do I have access to the course?
How does lifetime access sound? After enrolling, you have unlimited access to this course for as long as you like - across any and all devices you own.
What if I am unhappy with the course?
We would never want you to be unhappy! If you are unsatisfied with your purchase, contact us in the first 30 days and we will give you a full refund.

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